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Parents... there's a better way to talk to your kids about sex.

Navigate body, sex, and intimacy conversations with your kids, in a non-threatening way that makes a lasting impact on their choices. It's all inside our Honorable U Workbook for parents and kids!

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Not sure what to say to your kids about touchy topics?

Tired of arguing with your kids about modest clothing?

Wish your child would make healthier choices when it comes to their body, sex, and intimacy?

Yep. We get it. You see your kids “deconstructing” from Purity Culture and you want to teach them a better way.

One that will last long after they leave the house and face a boatload of temptations and confusion in a mixed-up world.

How can you empower them NOW to make godly choices LATER?

In this real-talk, 75-page e-book/workbook created by two relevant, Jesus-loving moms, you'll discover how to:

Grow in healthy communication with your child about touchy topics…so that they aren't left guessing.

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Address the truth of sex, promiscuity, attraction, intimacy and modesty with confidence…so that your child views you as a loving authority they can confide in.

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Inspire your child to make decisions from a calm, cool, collected mind space versus making it from a space of desperation…so that they are well-equipped to have honorable relationships.

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When the mind cannot make sense of a situation, it makes a situation out of the senseless. Honorable U helps you sort out what you want to say and how to say it…so your kids aren’t confused and floundering when it comes to their sexuality.

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What Are Real Moms Saying About Honorable U?

Marianne Smith

Mom to 3 boys, owner/designer at www.aldusdesigns.com

“As a mom of tween and teen boys, I appreciated HonorableU on two levels. It helped me come to terms with the good/bad of the purity culture in which I was raised, and offered great advice to help teach my sons about sexual purity through the lens of their noble heritage in Christ. HonorableU is written in a way that is easy to digest; the text is broken up with illustrations, question prompts, and helpful acronyms.“

Amanda Surline

Youth director at Potter's House and mom to 2 boys

“As a parent and youth director, the Honorable U e-workbook is an honest, truthful, and witty resource for parents for today's youth. It's as if Jami and Katie are in the room with you as you read, digest and prepare yourself to engage in conversation with your youth.“

Courtnaye Richard

Mom of 2 boys and a girl (ages 22, 17, and 14), founder of Inside Out with Courtnaye, www.courtnayerichard.com

“Talk about taking back purity! I absolutely love how Katie and Jami provide truth through Scripture as well as transparent stories to help us as parents lovingly dialogue with our children in today’s changing culture as it relates to sexual purity. What an enlightening and refreshing e-workbook on how to teach our kids to not only honor their own bodies, but also others and God.”

Stop avoiding "the talk"

and start engaging in candid conversations and quality questions with your kids.


Let’s face it…coloring a picture of Zacchaeus up a tree doesn’t necessarily or effectively translate into a relationship with Jesus that can get your son or daughter out of that Camero’s backseat with their virginity in tact.

We have been prim and proper about sex in the church and in our homes and done a disservice to our daughters and sons. Honorable U equips you to engage your child’s mind, inspire conversations, and inform decisions concerning the body, sex, and intimacy, so they are well-prepared to live honorably in an “anything goes” culture.

Inside this transformative and interactive e-workbook for parents of tweens and teens, you will gain access to candid stories, insightful strategies, and quality questions for reflection and discussion about these touchy topics:

Honoring Your Body

What does it really mean to "save yourself" for marriage? How does honoring your body involve not just what you DO but also how you THINK about your body and its worth? And why does the purity culture get this wrong?

Dating for Teens

Why is the answer no longer "just say no" but rather "just be smart" when it comes to dating? What are the reasons behind allowing or not allowing teen relationships? And how can you talk to your kids about wise boundaries?

Temptation in the Moment

All the advice you've ever given your kids does NOT need to fly out the window in the heat of a moment. We'll show you how to equip them to make smart choices when it really matters most. And how to respond when they don't.

Gender Issues

Our kids today are facing a new cultural norm for what's not only acceptable, but "cool." How can you engage in these tough conversations with relevance, compassion, and convictions that still serve to honor God?

Owning Up to Your Past (Parents)

Some of us parents didn't do it "right" as kids. How can we expect our children to "do what I say, not what I did"? Learn how to break free from your own guilt and imposter syndrome to empower your children with truth and grace.

Living With Your Choices

One thing that's certain is nobody's perfect. How do we handle mistakes? How do we help our kids recognize a regret BEFORE it happens, so they can prevent facing it later? And what role does God's grace play in all this?

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Meet the Workbook Creators

Jami Amerine and Katie Reid

Authors, Speakers, Coaches, and Moms of eleven children combined (ages little through adult)

As grown daughters of the Purity Culture surge of the 199o’s, we have witnessed the havoc and have carried some of the baggage of what, we believe, were well-intended teachings that got hoodwinked.

In this day and age, our children are being talked out of their convictions and budding beliefs, in 60-second viral videos that are tearing down that which is good and holy for that which gratifies and connects most quickly.

But watering down the truth to fit into a “just do it” society doesn’t change the deep connection that occurs in the throes of intimacy.

All is not lost!

As moms to many, authors, speakers, podcast hosts, with master’s degrees in education, what if we told you...

It is not too late for you or your child when it comes to discussing matters of purity in a culture that is deconstructing from it.

There is a better way—to love, be loved, and pass the torch of that love to our daughters and sons—than adding rules to the rules or throwing out the rules altogether.

This generation of young people are ABLE to live honorably, even in the face of great temptations and challenges.

They are ABLE to treat their bodies, others, and the gift of intimacy with respect.

They are also ABLE to be restored even if they wander.

We tell you how inside the Honorable U workbook!


Honorable U switches the subconscious’s goal from NOT doing something in order to stay pure to actively doing something to achieve a personal commitment that brings honor to you, others, and ultimately God who created you, your body, and sex.


Inside you'll find:

✔ 75 pages of digital content (can be printed in black and white or color)

✔ Colorful graphics throughout the workbook

✔ Questions to help you initiate and steer conversations

✔ Content written in harmony with God-given wisdom from Scripture

✔ Contributions from best-selling author, Susannah B. Lewis

✔ Scripture references throughout

✔ Complicated issues addressed with grace and restorative language

✔ Candid confessions to spark meaningful dialogue between parent and child

It's time for real talk.

Choose your best option:

Honorable U Workbook

Regular price: $39

Special Offer: $19

✔ Full access to our 75-page interactive PDF

✔ Relevant insight for Christian parenting in today's world

✔ Priceless lessons designed to build trusted communication with your tweens and teens on sensitive topics that NEED your guidance

BUY NOW for $19

DELUXE BUNDLE!
Honorable U Workbook + SocialWised U e-course

Regular price: $338

Special Offer: $118

✔ Full access to our 75-page interactive PDF

✔ Relevant insight for Christian parenting in today's world

✔ Priceless lessons designed to build trusted communication with your tweens and teens on sensitive topics that NEED your guidance

PLUS

✔ Add our innovative Socialwised U online course for parents! Discover a new approach to social media that doesn't AVOID or IGNORE the role of technology in our lives but rather EMPOWERS your kids to use social media wisely!

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Why add SocialWised U to your purchase today?

You wouldn't give your child the keys to a car before going through driver’s ed, so why would you hand them a phone without training them how to use it wisely?

 Whether your child has yet to log in or has multiple user names, we will show you how to experience more peace and less panic when it comes to your kids and social media.

 

Discover how to:

Exchange arguments for an altered outlook when it comes to screen time... so the whole family can live in harmony!

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Discover how to address sticky situations as your child grows and gains more internet access... so they can stay safe without you hovering.

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Choose conversation over contention as you learn to come alongside your child and equip them instead of trying to control them... so you can enjoy a trusting relationship instead of arguing.

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Unlock effective strategies to connect with and train your child how to use technology for their benefit instead of consequence... ensuring a lifelong positive relationship with social media!

Inside this pioneering course for parents with kids of all ages, you will gain access to 7 valuable lessons, each including:

Image-Driven Videos

These parent training videos are FUN to watch and packed with insight to help you better understand how your child's mind works and how you can train it to recognize real vs. fake, safe vs. unsafe, and wise vs. "Oh... my..."

Teen Talk Videos

This is where mama Jami gets real with your teens and shares her wise yet relatable advice on how to navigate the jungle of social media. Your teens will be equipped and encouraged to face social media with confidence.

Activity Guides

Each lesson provides a printable PDF containing a summary, space for taking notes, and special activities to enjoy with your children that are designed to apply what you've learned and pass it on to your kids.

Downloadable Art

Download original wall art, designed by Jami, for younger kids and teens. Each poster can be displayed at home or in your child's locker to reinforce what your kids are learning.

Phone Lock Screens

What better place to display a reminder of wise social media strategies than on your phone itself! Perfect for parents and kids alike, these fun lock screen images will serve as regular reminders of socialWISE choices.

Engaging Characters

Meet Iris and Ronnie, designed exclusively by Jami to engage younger children in important concepts. In each Activity Guide, Iris and Ronnie appear with memorable words of wisdom!

Make a smart investment in your kids today!

Choose your best option:

Honorable U Workbook

Regular price: $39

Special Offer: $19

✔ Full access to our 75-page interactive PDF

✔ Relevant insight for Christian parenting in today's world

✔ Priceless lessons designed to build trusted communication with your tweens and teens on sensitive topics that NEED your guidance

BUY NOW for $19

DELUXE BUNDLE!
Honorable U Workbook + SocialWised U e-course

Regular price: $338

Special Offer: $118

✔ Full access to our 75-page interactive PDF

✔ Relevant insight for Christian parenting in today's world

✔ Priceless lessons designed to build trusted communication with your tweens and teens on sensitive topics that NEED your guidance

PLUS

✔ Add our innovative Socialwised U online course for parents! Discover a new approach to social media that doesn't AVOID or IGNORE the role of technology in our lives but rather EMPOWERS your kids to use social media wisely!

BUY NOW for $118

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